Wednesday, February 15, 2012

10 Ways to Marry the Wrong Person


Valentines day is over. Yup, it really is. And I must say that, with or without a date and in spite of my no-non-sense Evangelical upbringing, I love this season for all its sweetness (cake!) and color (flowers!). It amuses me when I see guys of all ages carrying teddy bears, candy or a bunch of flowers with sparkle in their eyes and a curve on their lips. I even appreciate the inspiring messages of friends, attempting to give to God back all the love and affection due to Him on this Red day.   However, not wanting to be lost among hundreds of love posts, quotations, and mushy, cheesy and chocolatey lines, I am posting this list only now after waiting for all the love buzz to die down. Nobody wants a party popper, but a little reminder goes a long way for someone who heeds a wise advise, no matter how crazily in love he or she might be.


*10 ways to Marry the Wrong Person*

#1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you're married.
#2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character.
#3. You pick the wrong person because the man doesn't understand what a woman needs most.
#4. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and priorities.
#5. You choose the wrong person because you get intimately involved too quickly.
#6. You pick the wrong person because you do not have a deeper emotional connection with this person.
#7. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom you don't feel emotionally safe.
#8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the table.
#9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness.
#10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle.

They say Love is blind but, "Nay" says I. Love rejoices in truth**. It rejoices in the knowledge of truth that sets free*.
Be set free from hooking up with the wrong person and celebrate Valentines day, everyday with the right one

*(John 8:32, "... you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free")
**(I Corinthians 13: 6, "Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth")

       

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